Introduction and Purpose

There is no point to this story. There is no happy ending, no moral, no plot. One thing there is, is honesty. From my point of view, a human story from the inside of something most people will never experience but in all likelihood have been a part of at some point in their lives. It's blunt, gritty, shocking, uncovering layers of facade and sometimes adding a few. Of course the names are not the same, but the events are true. Nothing has been embellished, exaggerated or changed in any way. There are many different worlds out there just the other side of an imaginary line from you. This is one of them.

This is not a tell-all book. Understandably there is a great deal of concern in the BDSM community (mainly the male clients, of course) about being “outed.” If you think men's public behavior leaves something to be desired, you obviously have no idea how hard they work at hiding what they REALLY want to say and do. I may tell what they do and say but never who.

Starting in my forties, I worked as a professional dominatrix for eight years.  It was not a decision made lightly or under duress or with haste.  The gradual process from first stumbling into a BDSM chat room to full fledged professional was both deliberate and intentional at each step, from that very first encounter with a strange and interesting community online.

The intent of this blog is to share my experiences with those individuals interested in the BDSM community out of a desire to learn, connect, understand or share.  It is NOT to judge, degrade or otherwise disparage ANYONE.  I will openly and honestly answer questions and welcome comments, stories and experiences as long as they are without malice.

My entries in this blog will be snippets from my writings on this subject from a truly personal perspective where my main motivation to become a pro domme was understanding human nature, sexuality, men and myself.  (And based on responses to my posts.)

Let the games begin!